hi benny

please help me .. i have this situation with some chinese girl working in a cafe (waitress)to be friends with her but since she is new to work and new in the city (she is now for 1month) .and i am new in this talking and dating with girls …. so talking in chinese mandarian is hard because of this reasons…. i dont wana lose her …i tryied to talk to her before but i couldnt ask her so please if you could give me some tips or words in mandarian which help me in this …. please I a m Desperate cause if someone can really help is a chinese citezen …which I dont really got one [unfortunatly =( ]

shi shi ^^